Healing relationship wounds–with energy healing

Introduction
February of course brings with it the holiday of Valentine’s Day.  I think many of us have mixed feelings about this celebration.  I myself love the pink colors and the hearts, and of course fresh flowers; but there is an artificial energy to the day, plus a whole lot of stress on couples and singles, that is not always cause to celebrate.

However you feel about Valentine’s Day, the idea of relationships is nonetheless in our awareness this month, so here’s an energetic perspective on relationships to consider.

The Mingling of Energies
When we engage in a relationship with another person—be it platonic or romantic—something important happens in the energy world: our energies mix together.

And they don’t just mix; they move back and forth between us.

During relationships, we give our precious energy to other people–willingly.  We also lose our energy to the person, sometimes because that person has deliberately taken it from us.  (Think of “energy vampires,” for example: Those people who leave us feeling drained every time we interact with them.  Guess what?  They literally have taken some of our soul’s energy, leaving us a little weaker each time.)

Becoming Whole Again
It is always in our best interest to return to wholeness.  We can do this at any time, including while we’re still actively involved with other people.
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But especially when a relationship ends, we need to understand that that relationship is not complete until we have dealt with the energies involved.

Specifically, we need to give back what’s not ours, and reclaim what is.

We use the appropriate modality to do this, which, of course, is energy healing.  Specifically, we have to remove the energetic cords that have been connecting us to that other person, and do soul retrieval.

Healing What Came Up
As well, we need to heal any wounding that we experienced in that relationship or triggers that it brought up.  Until we do this, we will carry those wounds with us everywhere, and into potentially every interaction we have with other people.

When I work with clients who seek help with their relationships, I often recover tons of their soul’s energy from the other person.  When this happens, I see the client’s energy get stronger, bigger, and brighter.  The very quality of their energy changes, too; I notice them becoming empowered.  They also have less tolerance for being treated poorly, and have an easier time saying “no” when needed.
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And at the end of the session, I notice that my clients are happier, feeling more free, and have a stronger sense of self worth.

Start Your Healing Journey
If your current or past relationships are bringing triggers to the surface for you, then you would benefit from having an energy healing appointment with me.

Reclaim your wholeness. Be stronger.  Have clearer boundaries.  Clear away what’s not you.  Be empowered to live your fullest and most loving life.

Your relationships, including the one you have with yourself, will be better for it.

In healing,

Jen